Monday, 08 June 2009

  • Love ‘Em or Hate ‘Em ~ The Strong-minded Xangans

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    Now for those of you who follow the front pages and top blogs a lot, you’ll think we’re going to talk about the big named controversial ones. People who, by design or fate, have been embroiled in what is lovingly referred to as ‘Drama’. Aha! You’d be wrong. This is a list of a few fellow Xangans that speak their mind, no matter the subject, and don’t back down. They say what they chose and can spur debate because of it. Some people love that, some hate it. Either way, if you haven’t ever taken the time to read what they write, you may want to. It could get you thinking outside the box.

     

    CelestialTeapot is relatively new to the Xanga scene. Or is he? He is who he is and proud of it! In his own words: “It is only when we challenge our beliefs in controversy that our ideas can grow.” He’s written about Pro-Choice/Pro-Life, Theology, Xanga, Intelligent Design, Bigotry and Gay Marriage. He takes things that we fear and brings it out into the open. Unashamedly brash, he’ll take you on a whirlwind ride of ups and downs and when you get done, you’ll wonder whether to cheer, or grab a pitchfork. That’s why we read him. We never know what he’s going to say next. Don’t be shy about looking around his site. He isn’t going to be shy on yours.

     

    trunthepaige: Many here don’t warm to Paige for her outspoken ways. She’s quick to say what comes to her mind, and is not afraid to do so. Paige readily tackles the topics many keep away from, such as Homosexuality, The Darker Side of Porn Sites, Obama bashing, Racism, Religion, and Politics. She will happily argue her point and she won’t back down an inch. If you don’t like the way in which she proposes her ideas, her sarcasm, or the way in which she argues, you have but to unsub/unfriend/block her. While she might rant about it for a bit in a new blog, it will soon be forgotten. You have to admire someone who sticks to her convictions, refuses to change her mind, and is keen to talk about the subjects most shy away from, knowing full well her words will cause controversy. That is why we read her. She speaks her mind, and if you don’t like what she has to say, there’s the door!

     

     

    Dirtbubble: To use an old fashioned word, he’s a curmudgeon. To those who wander into his direction(and you should), be warned; he doesn’t suffer fools lightly. And the man can write. About anything and everything. Addictions, vices, politics, religion, cleaning out your life, trolls and oh yeah, did we mention that he writes poetry too? Go back and read his series on the women he has loved starting in kindergarten. There is a freshness there you may be surprised to find. He makes forthright comments and yes sometimes he may pop in a word of profanity, but only when he’s impassioned. When you stop by to read one of his posts, expect to stay a while. Don’t pop in and rush off because what he has to say is worth taking that extra few moments of your time.

     

    Lotta_Valdez: This woman doesn’t have her head in the clouds. She doesn’t need, want or ask for your approval. What you see is what you get. Don’t bother reading between the lines, because there isn’t anything there. She says what’s on her mind clearly and without question. Being a Top Blogger or getting featured isn’t a big deal for her. Why? “If you're seeking internet fame, you may as well stop now.  It's fleeting and it's boring.  And people start thinking they can say terrible things to you.” When this 20 year old sees bullshit, she calls it, in no uncertain terms. What people fail to realize is that this sometimes firebrand works with the mentally handicapped and spent her teenage years in the foster system that doesn’t always work right. So what if she swears, issues crass statements and doesn’t always post happy blogs? We don’t care. She has a lot to say and she says it well.

     

    Last but certainly not least, we’d like to present c_jamaica. Back when we first started on Xanga, this was the one name we heard when it came to bomb throwing, attitude, and controversy. This little Filipino has a way of infuriating those around her, and from what we saw or heard she could care less what others think of her. She has something to say, and she’s going to say it, regardless of whether people are upset or not. Her views of controversial topics set her apart from many others, such as her blog regarding sexual abuse, and she isn’t afraid to quote herself, as evidenced from her post on great writers. All in all we reather enjoy having her around. While too much controvesy can be overwhelming, this might just be a rather dull place without c_jamaca in it. 

     

    There you have it. Five peple that know how to help make Xanga a more interesting place to be  part of. We enjoy having them around.

Comments (44)

  • beetunes

    awww, i love trun!


    not too familiar with anyone else except c_jamaica... it's funny, but when she attacks your post, it's as if she's doing it for fun and doesn't hold anything else against you.
    it's very... interesting...
  • vanedave

    haha. These are some hard headed individuals fo sho. I have had run ins with a few of them.

  • ShamelesslyRed

    Paige and Tea Pot are definite slam dunks for me. I love em. Paige is true blue in her convictions, and I admire her stones  Celestial Tea Pot is a newer Xangan, or maybe an older Xangan with a new name? HMMM, in any case he's becoming a quick favorite- or at least in the top 10

  • mycontinuity

    There are better bloggers...


  • Bricker59
  • lonelywanderer2

    Great choices, all, a couple of whom were new to me!

  • lotta_valdez
  • melissa_orchid

    I love when you do these posts, because as a concept they add a lot to Xanga.

    I do have to say we differ, though, a great deal about a number of these bloggers. I've blocked some of them for astonishingly trolling conduct towards me. Being outspoken and genuinely debating are great. Being abusive and offensive to anybody who disagrees, not so much. Love you guys, but here maybe we'll have to agree to disagree, at least on the people whose names I recognize. But that's the beauty of Xanga, a blogger who appeals to one person may not appeal to another, but there is always something for everybody!

    I do like Lotta_Valdez. I've never seen her engage in trolling conduct, and find her blogs really interesting. Your description is spot on, and I admire that she is outspoken and doesn't care who disagrees, but that she won't come visit and harass people who write blogs with differing views. I'd see her as somebody to read more and learn from. I'll check out those I don't recognize.

    Love the pic with you two as well!

  • lovechartreuse

    I haven't had much experience with any of these except with paige and c_jamaica.
    The thing about paige is not that people can't handle how she says things; there are harsh and blunt people all over Xanga that are liked far more. However she tends to say things that are flat out ignorant and ill thought and just plain classless.

    As for c_jamaica my first impression of her was that she was an attention whore with nothing real to bring to the table.

    I don't read either of these needless to say.

  • AnamcharaConcepts

    @beetunes - Some of these you will like and some you won't. Thanks for coming by! @vanedave - I'm sure you have and so have we, but isn't that part of the whole experience here? @ShamelesslyRed - She certainly has some! And we're not sure TeaPot isn't a reincarnation of someone else either. @mycontinuity - There are and this series will continue with some of them. @Bricker59 - No problemo, understood. @lonelywanderer2 - Thanks for the comment @lotta_valdez - Our pleasure.

  • AnamcharaConcepts

    @melissa_orchid - Hey, we totally understand where you are coming from. This wasn't intended to get you to like people if you have had a run in with them sometime, just opening up the whole atmosphere of people on Xanga.

  • ElliottStrange

    I can't admire turnthepaige for sticking to her convictions because her convictions are often poorly supported or morally indefensible.
    Any idiot can be angry and loud.

    I like Celestialteapot though. Makes me laugh sometimes.

    As for the others... don't know em.

  • AnamcharaConcepts

    @lovechartreuse - We appreciate the fact that you may not like those we have listed, and as we had stated these people are strong minded. Like you and us, they are part of what makes Xanga what it is. Thanks for your comment.

  • beetunes

    ...this is quickly turning scary...


    *hides*
  • melissa_orchid

    @AnamcharaConcepts - I think the way you blog about bloggers is brilliant, so I didn't mean to argue. It's just that, to me, some people you have characterzed as strong are, in my view, aggressive and abrasive to the point that they tend to stifle meaningful discussions on here. People like me finally just decide to avoid meaningful topics because the harassment just isn't worth it. They've really diminished my experience because of that, so I'd be happy and more admiring with a little less strength from some of them. In any event, it's only my view, and this blog is about your views. I love you guys and can respect your views even when I can't share them, and I think you add so, so much to Xanga.

  • AnamcharaConcepts

    @ElliottStrange - Please see the disclaimer at the top. You are welcome to your opinion regarding those we've mentioned here, and while we won't tell you that you can't have such opinions, we'd appreciate it if you'd refrain from attacking them here. Thank you for stopping by. 

    @beetunes - Yes it is, and while we thought it might, we wanted to get our series under way. We'll be posting another one shortly that should keep people occupied. So check back shortly!
  • lovechartreuse

    @AnamcharaConcepts - Its not even that I don't like them, its more of this post being incorrect but. That's your opinion and we have ours. =]

  • trunthepaige

    CelestialTeapotis one of my favorites, though we almost never agree.

    Dirtbubble I never miss his writing, he very good and very different.

    And Lotta_Valdez well there was a time I liked reading her stuff. But for the health of all involved I don't go there anymore. Seems we share a shocking number of subscribers.

    As to me Thank you I think.

    No just make that an unqualified thank you. Some of your regulars act like vampires to my garlic. You would have needed to bash me to keep from losing some brownie points with them.

  • Krissy_Cole

    I have to come in here for trunthepaige. I have had a "run in" with her (if by run in we are talking about a difference of opinion). We are, politically speaking, very different from one another, but Paige NEVER left a bad taste in my mouth when I was debating her. She can keep her cool when we keep ours. Same as anybody. Just because she doesn't back down doesn't mean she isn't listening. It means she just still disagrees. Fair enough for me.


    All in all, good list!

  • AnamcharaConcepts

    @trunthepaige - This wasn't posted to gain or lose brownie points, thank god. We aren't here to play kiss up to everyone we come across. Like a family, there are those we aren't going to agree with. Doesn't mean they aren't still part of it. We can chose to walk away and ignore them. We don't always agree with you ourselves, but that doesn't mean you don't get a say. So you are welcome!

  • AnamcharaConcepts

    @Krissy_Cole - You my dear a class act. It's amazing how you can be so polite even when you don't agree. We appreciate that! And we appreciate your comment.

  • ElliottStrange

    @AnamcharaConcepts - Attacking? No I did not attack her character. She might be a great person, never debated that.
    Just stating observations - but if that's against the rules as well, I will refrain respectfully.

  • MySecretLoveAffair

    "strong-minded" indeed. 

  • Krissy_Cole

    @MySecretLoveAffair - This is not at all about the post, but I LOVE your new picture. It's adorable.

  • TheTheologiansCafe

    I know almost all of these and they are all kind people.

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